When motivated by others around you, it may seem like one is being affected and motivated. However, after the motivation session is completed, one goes back to the same condition he or she was in earlier. Also, motivating others often proves unfruitful as people tend to form opinions quickly and even before the motivation session begins, they have already decided, to what degree they are going to be affected. Compare this to self- motivation where you can get past the boundaries in your mind or your subconscious defenses. In such a comparison, self-motivation wins hands-down.